Amelia & Kevin / by Lexilu Photos

I first came to know Amelia a few years ago when she had written a very emotive blog post about her life.  I read it in tears, and it still makes me cry.  See, at a young age this beautiful person was faced with things that few adults could deal with.  She was caring for her ailing mother....alone at age 14.  You know, the time of life when girls are talking about girl things and going out with friends and, well, just being teenagers.  Amelia didn't have that.   In a blur she would come to find out about the loss of her father...and then lose her mom and the life she had known before the illness. 

So, why am I telling you this?  Why post this on what is suppose to be a happy, joyful, exciting time in her engagement session blog.  

Well, for one, I want you to appreciate what YOU have.

I want you to look around and be thankful for the love you have in your life with your friends and family.  I also want you to look at Amelia....I mean really look at her.  She is a survivor.  She has built a life, seemingly from scratch. 

She epitomizes the phrase, "You don't get over it, you get through it." 

Amelia has done just that, each year around this season she does it again, only now, shes not alone.  Along the path life leads us there are always rays of sunshine that peek through.  Amelia found hers when she met Kevin.  Kevin is a smiling, charming man that, as you will see in the photos, loves her dearly.  Through the lens of a camera, you learn to sense things as they happen...those natural, nonposed moments are best for seeing it.  And during their session I saw it as they became comfortable with the camera, and began to focus on each other.  Its a kind of moment that makes you stop and sigh......

It happened when Kevin pulled her in and gave her one of those hugs that most of us only read about on Pinterest Quotes about hugs.  You know the one that begins,

  I want a hug, not a normal hug, NO.  I want one of those pick-me-up-off-my-feet-squeeze-me-tight-spin-me-around-hurts-my -tummy-but-still-makes-me-smile-leaves-me-breathless-gives-me-butterflies-makes-me-giggle-stupidly-kind-of-hugs.

  Yep, this is what Amelia has found in life.   In a few words....HAPPINESS, CONTENTMENT, TRUST....and most of all...LOVE.  And she deserves ever ounce of it....and more.  Throughout their session they did all those things young people do when the are in love, they smile, kissed...he held her hand, wiped the stray hair from her face.  Amelia soaked up the love the Kevin showered upon her.  And as they danced to Kevin humming their wedding song, (or a version of another ;)   the sun began to set and he kissed her gently as it did.  A testament to living new beginnings, and that love never fails.   

Kevin & Amelia's beautiful engagement session.